Why Plan Ahead?
- Plan your services
- Get the personalized details
- Less strain on your loved ones
- You can lock in the current day prices
- Reduce the financial burden on family
- You can pay over time
- Gives you the opportunity to shop around
- Easily transferable
How to Pre-plan your funeral
Pre-planning your funeral will make certain that your choices are respected and carried out, without leaving your family to wonder what your wishes might have been. You also have the option of paying for your funeral in advance: this locks-in the cost of the funeral at today’s prices.
When you’re ready to make a real plan, fill out our form below and we will have one of our pre-planning counselors call you to set up an appointment.
There are many different ways to begin the planning ahead conversation. You know your family and how your loved one might best respond to the topic. For some families, it might be a casual conversation over dinner or another family gathering: for other families, a formal meeting might be better suited.
Regardless of your approach, the conversation is much easier to have when death is not imminent. Bringing up the subject with loved ones earlier in life when they are younger and most likely healthier, makes the topic easier to discuss and keep the focus on the celebration of life rather than an impending loss.
Here are some tips that may help you start the advance planning conversation with your loved ones:
- Set a time to have a conversation: schedule it as an appointment with your loved ones, whether you want to share your plans with them or ask them to make their plans to share with you.
- Tell your parent or loved one that you want to ensure their final arrangements are done according to their wishes and you need their help to make that happen.
- Ease in to the conversation. Questions such as “Have you ever thought about where you would like to be buried?” or “What type of funeral you would like to have?” may open the discussion to more details about your loved one’s wishes.
- Take advantage of funeral related opportunities. Attending the funeral of friend, family member, or colleague, or watching a movie or tv show with funeral scenes, may naturally prompt the discussion with your own loved ones. Talk about what you liked and didn’t like about the services you saw or attended.
- Tell your children or loved ones that because you care for them so much, you don’t want to burden them with difficult decisions when you’re gone. Tell them you’ve made your own final arrangements and give them a written record of what they are.
- Make it a family affair. Schedule an appointment with your chosen funeral home or cemetery provider and invite your children along to participate in the selection of services, funeral merchandise, and cemetery property.
Whether you’re sharing plans for your own final arrangement with loved ones, or encouraging loved ones to make and share their plans with you, the conversation about planning ahead is an important one that every family should have. While no one wants to think about their death or the death of a loved one any sooner than they must, having the conversation in advance alleviates the need for potentially more unpleasant of difficult conversations in the future.